Grey's Anatomy
If Only You Were Lonely
TV Flash files “If Only You Were Lonely” as hour 164 of 467 in the TV Flash guide — Grey's Anatomy (2005–present) on ABC, season 8, episode 16, aired 2012-02-23, 60 min.
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How this hour is filed
This leaf is S08E16: listed hour 164 of 467 in the Grey's Anatomy guide, hour 16 of 24 in season 8. It aired 2012-02-23 (60 min). The listed hour before it is “Have You Seen Me Lately?” (S08E15). Next is “One Step Too Far” (S08E17). Broadcast log — titles and dates, not a plot bible.

Catalog log
Broadcast listing — not a TV Flash recap.
As Adele's condition continues to deteriorate, Richard considers altering their living situation; an explosion at a local coffee shop results in a busy day in the ER for the doctors; Callie takes Meredith under her wing by helping her study for her boards; Lexie joins Arizona and Alex in peds, as they continue to care for intern Morgan's premature son; and when Jackson snaps at a patient, Mark encourages him to find ways to relieve his stress. Meanwhile, Cristina lets her suspicions get the best of her.
Viewer FAQ
Where does If Only You Were Lonely sit in the Grey's Anatomy guide?
S08E16 is listed hour 164 of 467 — hour 16 of 24 in season 8, season 8 episode 16.
When did Grey's Anatomy S08E16 air?
If Only You Were Lonely aired 2012-02-23 and is listed at 60 minutes.
Where should I start Grey’s Anatomy?
“A Hard Day’s Night.” The intern-year silhouette is the collection’s first look. Starting at a later “event” is how you miss why the hallway still photographs.
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