Six Feet Under
Coming and Going
TV Flash files “Coming and Going” as hour 47 of 63 in the TV Flash guide — Six Feet Under (2001–2005) on HBO, season 4, episode 8, aired 2004-08-08, 60 min.
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How this hour is filed
This leaf is S04E08: listed hour 47 of 63 in the Six Feet Under guide, hour 8 of 12 in season 4. It aired 2004-08-08 (60 min). The listed hour before it is “The Dare” (S04E07). Next is “Grinding the Corn” (S04E09).
Catalog log
Broadcast listing — not a TV Flash recap.
David is living at home alone now that Keith is on the road with rock star Celeste. He does take advantage of an out of the blue call from an old acquaintance, Sarge, but still suffers from post-traumatic stress. Keith finally comes out to one of his co-workers but it's an encounter with Celeste that sends him packing. Ruth has come to the end of her tether when she returns from church to find that George has trimmed a tree her first husband had planted in the yard.
Viewer FAQ
Where does Coming and Going sit in the Six Feet Under guide?
S04E08 is listed hour 47 of 63 — hour 8 of 12 in season 4, season 4 episode 8.
When did Six Feet Under S04E08 air?
Coming and Going aired 2004-08-08 and is listed at 60 minutes.
Is it just depressing?
It is grief-forward, not misery cosplay. There is comedy in the parlor and the family. If you need caper energy, you will bounce. If you can sit with a dining-room silence, you will not.
In the series
Why this series still plays
Watch it because death is the schedule, not the twist — a family drama that practiced ending every week until it knew how to finish. Five seasons, no kingpin required. If you only know the finale’s reputation, the preceding hours are why that reputation is not a rumor.
Someone has died before the credits finish introducing themselves. That is the cut Six Feet Under refuses to treat as a gimmick. Alan Ball built an HBO drama whose cold open is a stranger’s last day, then asked a family business to metabolize it. The Fishers are not antiheroes moonlighting as philosophers. They are workers in a house that smells like lilies and unfinished conversations. Prestige television of the early 2000s was busy inventing the charming monster. This one invented the weekly reminder that the…
Filed against
- Peter Krause as Nate Fisher
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- Michael C. Hall as David Fisher
Michael C. Hall’s David Fisher is grief as posture on Six Feet Under — the funeral-home son who treats repression as blocking inside Alan Ball’s HBO family. Death is the weekly frame, not the twist; Hall made therapy, work, and a life in…
- Frances Conroy as Ruth Fisher
Frances Conroy played Ruth Fisher on Six Feet Under — funeral-home matriarch, death as a weekly frame, therapy as plot. TV Flash files her as Alan Ball's domestic weather: a mother who makes HBO's ending reputation feel earned in the…
- Lauren Ambrose as Claire Fisher
Lauren Ambrose’s Claire Fisher is Six Feet Under’s youngest argument with death — Alan Ball’s funeral-home family, grief as house style, a finale the culture still uses as a measuring stick. HBO emotional counterweight to antihero crime.…
- Rachel Griffiths as Brenda Chenowith
Rachel Griffiths’s Brenda Chenowith brought Six Feet Under its most complicated guest in the house — a partner who made grief as house style into a relationship problem. Alan Ball’s funeral-home family practiced ending every week. TV…
- Freddy Rodríguez as Federico Diaz
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