Who's the Boss?
Sex, Lies and Exercise Tape
TV Flash files “Sex, Lies and Exercise Tape” as hour 130 of 196 in the TV Flash guide — Who's the Boss? (1984–1992) on ABC, season 6, episode 9, aired 1989-11-21, 30 min.
From the desk
How this hour is filed
This leaf is S06E09: listed hour 130 of 196 in the Who's the Boss? guide, hour 9 of 26 in season 6. It aired 1989-11-21 (30 min). The listed hour before it is “Supermom Burnout” (S06E08). Next is “To Tony, with Love” (S06E10).

Catalog log
Broadcast listing — not a TV Flash recap.
Angela joins a health club, where she quickly makes friends with a group of three women. After they meet Tony, Angela tells them they are a couple. Tony learns of Angela's lie, and she explains that, just like in high school, she felt pressured to do it, in order to fit in.
Viewer FAQ
Where does Sex, Lies and Exercise Tape sit in the Who's the Boss? guide?
S06E09 is listed hour 130 of 196 — hour 9 of 26 in season 6, season 6 episode 9.
When did Who's the Boss? S06E09 air?
Sex, Lies and Exercise Tape aired 1989-11-21 and is listed at 30 minutes.
Do they ever resolve the will-they?
The delay is the engine. Years of ratings rode Tony-and-Angela tension and Danza's ex-jock charm. The boss question stayed rhetorical on purpose; don't come for a speedy wedding.
In the series
Why this series still plays
Comfort multi-cam with genuine chemistry and Milano's star minting in real time. Danza's ex-jock housekeeper, Light's ad-exec boss, Helmond's champagne-dry Mona, and will-they tension with a gender-role flip that doesn't collapse after the pilot. The boss question stayed rhetorical for years on purpose.
The boss question stayed rhetorical for years on purpose — that is not a spoiler, that is the long-game tease the group chat still litigates. (I said spoiler-free. The will-they is the show.) ABC's Who's the Boss? (1984–1992) flipped the house: former baseball player Tony Micelli as live-in housekeeper for advertising executive Angela Bower. Tony Danza, Judith Light, Alyssa Milano minting as teen star Samantha, Katherine Helmond as champagne-dry Mona, Danny Pintauro's Jonathan. Domestic labor jokes met slow-burn…
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- Judith Light as Angela Bower
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- Alyssa Milano as Samantha Micelli
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- Danny Pintauro as Jonathan Bower
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