The Mary Tyler Moore Show
You Sometimes Hurt the One You Hate
TV Flash files “You Sometimes Hurt the One You Hate” as hour 99 of 168 in the TV Flash guide — The Mary Tyler Moore Show (1970–1977) on CBS, season 5, episode 3, aired 1974-09-28, 30 min.
From the desk
How this hour is filed
This leaf is S05E03: listed hour 99 of 168 in the The Mary Tyler Moore Show guide, hour 3 of 24 in season 5. It aired 1974-09-28 (30 min). The listed hour before it is “Not Just Another Pretty Face” (S05E02). Next is “Lou and That Woman” (S05E04).
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Broadcast listing — not a TV Flash recap.
Lou finally loses his temper with Ted when he endorses a political candidate on The Six O'clock News and throws him through the office doors. Lou feels guilty, and Ted takes advantage of him.
Viewer FAQ
Where does You Sometimes Hurt the One You Hate sit in the The Mary Tyler Moore Show guide?
S05E03 is listed hour 99 of 168 — hour 3 of 24 in season 5, season 5 episode 3.
When did The Mary Tyler Moore Show S05E03 air?
You Sometimes Hurt the One You Hate aired 1974-09-28 and is listed at 30 minutes.
Where should I start?
Love is All Around. The hat, the job interview, and the newsroom manners are the whole silhouette. If you only have two hours, add Chuckles Bites the Dust.
In the series
Why this series still plays
For the silhouette: a single working woman in newsroom wool who made competence look like glamour, an ensemble that dressed like adults, and a hat toss that is still the hardest launch in sitcom photography.
The first image is not a joke. It is a woman in a coat, a city that photographs cold, and a hat that leaves her hand as if it had a publicist. Love is All Around does not announce a feminist lecture. It announces a silhouette: Mary Richards as single working woman in a market that still wanted her married by the first commercial. The beret in the air is not cute. It is a premiere look that the rerun still steals. Style is the plot. The newsroom is the closet she will live in for seven seasons.
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