Rhoda
If You Don't Tell Her, I Will
TV Flash files “If You Don't Tell Her, I Will” as hour 40 of 110 in the TV Flash guide — Rhoda (1974–1978) on CBS, season 2, episode 15, aired 1975-12-29, 30 min.
From the desk
How this hour is filed
This leaf is S02E15: listed hour 40 of 110 in the Rhoda guide, hour 15 of 24 in season 2. It aired 1975-12-29 (30 min). The listed hour before it is “Bump in the Night” (S02E14). Next is “Rhoda's Sellout” (S02E16).
Catalog log
Broadcast listing — not a TV Flash recap.
Two's company, and three's a crowd, as both Brenda and Rhoda discover when they have uninvited guests moving in with them.
Viewer FAQ
Where does If You Don't Tell Her, I Will sit in the Rhoda guide?
S02E15 is listed hour 40 of 110 — hour 15 of 24 in season 2, season 2 episode 15.
When did Rhoda S02E15 air?
If You Don't Tell Her, I Will aired 1975-12-29 and is listed at 30 minutes.
Do I need The Mary Tyler Moore Show first?
Helpful, not required. Rhoda is a direct MTM spin-off, but Harper's New York household plays as its own series once she is home.
In the series
Why this series still plays
Valerie Harper takes Mary's best friend home to New York, gets the wedding America watched, then lets the marriage fall apart on network air. MTM spin-off with Ida, Brenda, and sharper neurotic edges. Single-woman comedy that risked a real 'I don't.'
CBS moved Mary's best friend home to New York and programmed a wedding as mid-1970s event television — then refused to freeze the I do as a permanent sitcom trophy. Rhoda (1974–1978) ran five seasons, 110 episodes, a James L. Brooks and Allan Burns MTM spin-off that made Valerie Harper a lead. Nancy Walker's mother Ida, Julie Kavner's sister Brenda, and David Groh's Joe sharpened the neurotic edge Minneapolis could not fully use. Single-woman comedy gained a New York accent. Rex can keep the bridesmaid footnote.…
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