Rhoda
If You Want to Shoot the Rapids You Have to Get Wet
TV Flash files “If You Want to Shoot the Rapids You Have to Get Wet” as hour 43 of 110 in the TV Flash guide — Rhoda (1974–1978) on CBS, season 2, episode 18, aired 1976-01-19, 30 min.
From the desk
How this hour is filed
This leaf is S02E18: listed hour 43 of 110 in the Rhoda guide, hour 18 of 24 in season 2. It aired 1976-01-19 (30 min). The listed hour before it is “Attack on Mr. Right” (S02E17). Next is “The Return of Billy Glass” (S02E19).

Catalog log
Broadcast listing — not a TV Flash recap.
Rhoda, whose only real luck with a man has been with her husband Joe, finds herself playing marriage counselor to a couple who has been married for 12 years.
Viewer FAQ
Where does If You Want to Shoot the Rapids You Have to Get Wet sit in the Rhoda guide?
S02E18 is listed hour 43 of 110 — hour 18 of 24 in season 2, season 2 episode 18.
When did Rhoda S02E18 air?
If You Want to Shoot the Rapids You Have to Get Wet aired 1976-01-19 and is listed at 30 minutes.
Do I need The Mary Tyler Moore Show first?
Helpful, not required. Rhoda is a direct MTM spin-off, but Harper's New York household plays as its own series once she is home.
In the series
Why this series still plays
Valerie Harper takes Mary's best friend home to New York, gets the wedding America watched, then lets the marriage fall apart on network air. MTM spin-off with Ida, Brenda, and sharper neurotic edges. Single-woman comedy that risked a real 'I don't.'
CBS moved Mary's best friend home to New York and programmed a wedding as mid-1970s event television — then refused to freeze the I do as a permanent sitcom trophy. Rhoda (1974–1978) ran five seasons, 110 episodes, a James L. Brooks and Allan Burns MTM spin-off that made Valerie Harper a lead. Nancy Walker's mother Ida, Julie Kavner's sister Brenda, and David Groh's Joe sharpened the neurotic edge Minneapolis could not fully use. Single-woman comedy gained a New York accent. Rex can keep the bridesmaid footnote.…
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- David Groh as Joe Gerard
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- Nancy Walker as Ida Morgenstern
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