Sex and the City
Sex and the Country
TV Flash files “Sex and the Country” as hour 57 of 94 in the TV Flash guide — Sex and the City (1998–2004) on HBO, season 4, episode 9, aired 2001-07-22, 30 min.
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How this hour is filed
This leaf is S04E09: listed hour 57 of 94 in the Sex and the City guide, hour 9 of 18 in season 4. It aired 2001-07-22 (30 min). The listed hour before it is “My Motherboard, My Self” (S04E08). Next is “Belles of the Balls” (S04E10).

Catalog log
Broadcast listing — not a TV Flash recap.
Miranda finds out from Aidan that Steve has testicular Cancer. She has lunch with Steve and screams at him for being so nonchalant about his cancer, causing him to break down and cry. Carrie prepares for a trip to Aidan's country cabin in Suffern, NY with a true city girl's trepidation. She tells the girls she's going because Aidan loves the country. Charlotte understands, adding that she's going to Bunny's Connecticut house to please Trey. When Carrie gets to Aidan's extra rustic cabin, she immediately laments not being in the city. She realizes that relationships are inevitably a series of compromises and asks: When does the art of compromise become compromising? Unable to stand it anymore, Carrie returns to New York and goes out for a steak with Big. Big tells her he's dating a movie star and that he might be in love. Carrie decides to go back to Aidan's and recruits Samantha to provide some entertainment. Samantha has a hard time in the great outdoors until she spots a hunky farmer. She approaches "Young McDonald" to borrow some milk and gets a lesson in how to milk a cow and then some. Carrie tries to embrace the country and gets to work on baking Aidan a pie. But when a squirrel scares her, she drops the piecrust and admits to Aidan that she hates the house. Over in Connecticut, Charlotte is busily monitoring her fertility. Looking for Trey, she walks in on him taking a bath with his mother sitting nearby. She's disturbed but when her ovulation beeper goes off, she and Trey get to work in Bunny's prized orchid greenhouse. Back in the city, Miranda invites Steve over for take-out Chinese but her pitying behavior pisses off Steve. Still, he thanks her for being a bitch the other day because it motivated him to see a good doctor and schedule surgery. Miranda is by Steve's side when he awakes after his operation. Carrie goes home after compromising with Aidan. He'll install A/C and she'll brave the bugs and dirt every now and then.
Viewer FAQ
Where does Sex and the Country sit in the Sex and the City guide?
S04E09 is listed hour 57 of 94 — hour 9 of 18 in season 4, season 4 episode 9.
When did Sex and the City S04E09 air?
Sex and the Country aired 2001-07-22 and is listed at 30 minutes.
Where should I start?
Season 1, episode 1. The voiceover and the four-silhouette contract are the whole machine.
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