Sex and the City
Coulda, Woulda, Shoulda
TV Flash files “Coulda, Woulda, Shoulda” as hour 59 of 94 in the TV Flash guide — Sex and the City (1998–2004) on HBO, season 4, episode 11, aired 2001-08-05, 30 min.
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How this hour is filed
This leaf is S04E11: listed hour 59 of 94 in the Sex and the City guide, hour 11 of 18 in season 4. It aired 2001-08-05 (30 min). The listed hour before it is “Belles of the Balls” (S04E10). Next is “Just Say Yes” (S04E12).
Catalog log
Broadcast listing — not a TV Flash recap.
Miranda tells Carrie that she's pregnant from having unprotected sex with Steve and his one ball. Miranda doesn't want the baby and doesn't want to tell Steve. Charlotte, however, can't seem to get pregnant no matter what bedroom techniques she tries. When she finds out that Miranda is pregnant and is going to have an abortion, she's so upset she storms away. Carrie and Samantha admit that they've both had abortions - Carrie after a one-night stand with a waiter in the '80s. Carrie tells Aidan about Miranda and swears him to secrecy. Aidan is appalled that Miranda isn't going to tell Steve. Carrie lies to Aidan about having had an abortion herself. Samantha has lunch with Lucy Liu, hoping to represent her. They hit it off and Lucy tells Samantha that she refuses to be lied to. Samantha also has her eye on the coveted Hermes red "Birkin" handbag. Unfortunately, there's an eternally long waiting list, so Samantha uses Lucy Liu's starpower to score a bag. When Lucy shows up at their next lunch carrying the "free" bag, Samantha tells her it's actually for herself. Lucy is furious, fires Samantha and walks off with the bag. Charlotte sees a fertility doctor and finds out that she has only a 15 percent chance of conceiving naturally. She bumps into Miranda on the street, tells her the news and walks away from the unhappily pregnant Miranda. Carrie accompanies Miranda to have her abortion. While they're waiting Miranda becomes increasingly worried that she's not making the right decision. She wonders if this is her only chance to have a baby. She decides to keep the baby and the girls, including Charlotte, gather around her and support her decision. Carrie returns to the restaurant where she had met Chad, the waiter who had gotten her pregnant years ago. He's still there and doesn't remember Carrie. She realizes she made the right decision and leaves. Carrie decides to be honest and admits to Aidan that she had an abortion when she was 22. She was worried that he would criticize her, but Aidan is non-judgemental.
Viewer FAQ
Where does Coulda, Woulda, Shoulda sit in the Sex and the City guide?
S04E11 is listed hour 59 of 94 — hour 11 of 18 in season 4, season 4 episode 11.
When did Sex and the City S04E11 air?
Coulda, Woulda, Shoulda aired 2001-08-05 and is listed at 30 minutes.
Where should I start?
Season 1, episode 1. The voiceover and the four-silhouette contract are the whole machine.
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