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The Difference Between Men and Women
TV Flash files “The Difference Between Men and Women” as hour 78 of 85 in the TV Flash guide — thirtysomething (1987–1991) on ABC, season 4, episode 16, aired 1991-02-26, 60 min.
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How this hour is filed
This leaf is S04E16: listed hour 78 of 85 in the thirtysomething guide, hour 16 of 23 in season 4. It aired 1991-02-26 (60 min). The listed hour before it is “Fighting the Cold” (S04E15). Next is “The Wedding” (S04E17).
Viewer FAQ
Where does The Difference Between Men and Women sit in the thirtysomething guide?
S04E16 is listed hour 78 of 85 — hour 16 of 23 in season 4, season 4 episode 16.
When did thirtysomething S04E16 air?
The Difference Between Men and Women aired 1991-02-26 and is listed at 60 minutes.
Is it as self-absorbed as the jokes say?
It is talk-heavy about privileged anxieties — that is the brief. Critics called it navel-gazing; the devotees were watching character detail as drama. Both readings are in the text.
In the series
Why this series still plays
The founding text of modern relationship prestige TV — for better and for the mockable. Herskovitz and Zwick made yuppie interiority a drama genre: marriages, babies, advertising careers, exquisite overthinking. Character detail over car chases, always. The title escaped the show and haunted marketing forever. Critics said navel-gazing; devotees called it true.
Advertising careers, marriages, babies, and the anxiety of having everything on paper: ABC put that on the night and named a demographic. *thirtysomething* (1987–1991), Marshall Herskovitz and Edward Zwick, followed Michael and Hope Steadman and their circle through about 85 episodes of exquisite overthinking. Ken Olin, Mel Harris, Melanie Mayron, Timothy Busfield, Patricia Wettig, Peter Horton — friendship as serialized therapy. Intimate, talk-heavy storytelling about career and domestic life, polarized from the…
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