Family Matters
Breaking Up Is Hard to Do
TV Flash files “Breaking Up Is Hard to Do” as hour 206 of 215 in the TV Flash guide — Family Matters (1989–1998) on ABC/CBS, season 9, episode 13, aired 1998-01-16, 30 min.
From the desk
How this hour is filed
This leaf is S09E13: listed hour 206 of 215 in the Family Matters guide, hour 13 of 22 in season 9. It aired 1998-01-16 (30 min). The listed hour before it is “Grill of My Dreams” (S09E12). Next is “Crazy for You (1)” (S09E14).

Catalog log
Broadcast listing — not a TV Flash recap.
Urkel and Myra break up, and Eddie decides to drop out of college to become a cop.
Viewer FAQ
Where does Breaking Up Is Hard to Do sit in the Family Matters guide?
S09E13 is listed hour 206 of 215 — hour 13 of 22 in season 9, season 9 episode 13.
When did Family Matters S09E13 air?
Breaking Up Is Hard to Do aired 1998-01-16 and is listed at 30 minutes.
Do I need Perfect Strangers first?
Only for the spin-off doorway. Family Matters becomes its own Chicago household — then Urkel hijacks it. The Winslows are the premise; the suspenders are the 1990s.
In the series
Why this series still plays
A Perfect Strangers spin-off about the Winslows that got hijacked by a high-voiced nerd in suspenders. Jaleel White's Urkel is the decade's breakout-character takeover: the family sitcom becomes a cartoon around him, then a TGIF juggernaut. Start for the Chicago household warmth; stay for the transformation you can chart episode by episode.
The neighbor walks in, and the form changes. ABC, 1989, later CBS late-run through 1998: Chicago cop Carl Winslow's family absorbs neighbor Steve Urkel's chaotic genius — a Perfect Strangers spin-off that was supposed to be the Winslows. Family Matters, from William Bickley and Michael Warren, put Reginald VelJohnson, Jo Marie Payton, Darius McCrary, Kellie Shanygne Williams, and Jaleel White's nerd in suspenders on TGIF. Then the neighbor ate the series. If you came for a blotter item about a catchphrase hijack,…
Filed against
- Reginald VelJohnson as Carl Winslow
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- Jo Marie Payton as Harriette Winslow
Jo Marie Payton held Family Matters as Harriette Winslow — Chicago household warmth before a high-voiced nerd in suspenders hijacked the sitcom. Perfect Strangers spin-off, TGIF juggernaut, a mother who kept the living room human while…
- Jaleel White as Steve Urkel
Jaleel White’s Steve Urkel hijacked Family Matters — high-voiced nerd in suspenders, a Perfect Strangers spin-off that became a TGIF cartoon around one breakout. Chicago household warmth first; then the did-I-do-that weather system. TV…
- Darius McCrary as Eddie Winslow
Darius McCrary’s Eddie Winslow held Family Matters before Urkel hijacked the Chicago household — Perfect Strangers spin-off, Jaleel White’s high-voiced nerd in suspenders becoming a TGIF juggernaut. Start for the warmth; stay for the son…
- Kellie Shanygne Williams as Laura Winslow
Kellie Shanygne Williams's Laura Winslow held Family Matters to the Chicago household even after a nerd in suspenders hijacked the decade. TGIF warmth, Perfect Strangers spin-off roots, a sister who refused to become set dressing. TV…